Hi Thomas,
please check out my website https://www.toodee.de/?p=3230 - I was just yesterday finishing an article on how to transition a Blender Filmic scene to ACES.
This is not what you want but I found out with a very simple scene that you can get a similar look with ACES, but this might depend a lot on the look of the show you are working on.
And if you want to use ACES and you want to grade the images anyway, I don’t think there is a linear-sRGB IDT inside of Resolve available to load in the EXR files without the Filmic look, but as you described that you get the sequences from Nuke, so you could simply export them as ACES 2065-1 EXR files (with a ColorSpace node).
I don’t know if you can convert the filmic view transform .spi1d files to a format that Resolve can read. Then it could work in a Resolve non color managed YRGB workflow.
Best regards
Daniel